My lady just broke up with me and never responded to my text. Heartbroken...?

So you go to strip clubs even though you know it bothers her and then when she comes home exhausted you demand that she "pick" something to do around the house. Is that how you treat someone you are "totally in love with"? You are not being considerate of her feelings at all.If you feel that as free individual you should be able to go and watch the strippers then as a free individual she has the right to do what she wants. And she did. She left.Yes you totally blew it.