Would they tell that I'm not a virgin?

Well I'm 14 and I was raped when I was 11. I went through a very rough time and am still kind of struggling but I've gotten help and am working on moving on and not letting my attacker control me. Only my best friend knows about my rape. I'm scared to tell my parents, and also feel like I'm healing and bringing it up and making it a big deal again an having to talk about it will only make things worse for me. I'm wondering if in future doctor or gyno apts if there's any physical way to tell that someone has lost their virginity? It's been a couple years so I'm guessing the physical damage done by force has healed..? Thanks. I planned on, an still plan on waiting till marrige to really loose my virginity. It was takin from me but in my heart I am a virgin.